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One will never know. View all 44 comments. MissBecka I had to google that to know it was from the littlest hobo lol. Jun 25, AM. Ahoy there me mateys! So here be me honest musings. Okay so I be an introvert from an entire family of very extroverted people. The ma can meet and talk to anyone and makes life-long friends everywhere she goes.
Me sis loves parties and tons of people hanging out at her house. I be a tough ol' salt who has a withering glare, a distaste for crowds, and a cutless for prodding if ye get too close. And yet I be th Ahoy there me mateys! And yet I be the weird one. As I grown older and even more set in me ways, I like nothing more than long nights at sea with me book and me bunk and the peace of the waves. So when I saw this title it made me laugh and I had to give it a go. And the author's journey is hell, pure and simple.
I was impressed. I can talk to strangers if I must. Though the sails end up tattered and all hope was nearly lost, I have survived public speaking engagements. A Captain must do such things or face mutiny. But doing improv or performing stand-up comedy. I would rather slit me own throat. I am an introvert who despises having to force extrovertedness at all costs.
Only for survival mateys! I ended up having a decent time reading this one. I certainly found the first half of the book much more to me taste then the second half. I feel that the latter part of her year seemed to be discussed in less detail.
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It was less about the interesting people she met and more about the social situations liking traveling alone or taking magic mushrooms or more comedy nights. I have no interest in the mushrooms and no problems traveling alone. So I did get a bit bored. But ultimately I applaud this kindred introvert and her pluck. Congrats matey. I raise me grog in toast.
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So lastly. Thank you Andrews McMeel Publishing! Side note: for the large majority of introverts on me crew, if ye haven't read quiet: the power of introverts in a world that can't stop talking then I suggest giving it a gander! I was totally intrigued when I saw the title of this book.
I am a social introvert and I enjoyed this lighthearted but relatable non-fiction book that read like an engaging novel. As a shy introvert frequently known as a "shintrovert", Jessica Pan decided to take a year to step out of her shell and enter the "extroverted world". After a family crisis in her family turned into a light bulb moment she realized she was lacking in the friend's department.
She decided to take this time to focus on co I was totally intrigued when I saw the title of this book. She decided to take this time to focus on connecting with new people who might just turn into the good friends she was hoping for in her own life. She shares her trials and tribulations and also the things she learned along the way This book was insightful and humorous and if this title catches your eye, you might enjoy it too! View 1 comment. Apr 28, Montzalee Wittmann rated it really liked it. This is a witty and clever book that I enjoyed reading. I can say relate to some of it.
It has humor and is a good feeling book. I did find she repeated herself a lot. Worth the read. I don't think I have ever written a book, but reading this one makes me think I have. I too am a 30 something, shy, introverted, small town Texas girl who has no idea how to have a conversation that doesn't involve ghosts or dogs or make friends.
I'm not Chinese, Aries or named Jessica Pan but I would have been if my cousin hadn't been born first, forcing my Mom to "get creative" and name me Jennifer Ann instead. The title of this book caught my attention, because SAME, but I had no idea just how relatable it was going to be! There were SO many times I caught myself nodding along enthusiastically or cringing at how awful some of these experiences she was forcing herself to have were, and just laughing out loud. I have finished this book inspired to go on an extrovert journey of my own - not today - but maybe someday soon I will be as brave as Jessica is.
I was lucky enough to be provided this ARC in exchange for an honest and unbiased review via Netgalley. All opinions are genuine and my own.
As an introvert with occasionally crippling social anxiety, I regarded Jess Pan's book warily. I saw the cover online, laughed at the icing-on-the-cake image, and then gave the subtitle a little side-eye. An introvert… saying yes… for a whole year? Say it ain't so. I love fist pumping my way through and being completely convinced while sitting quietly alone in my house that I can conquer all my social-anxiety fears and do anything. And then I put the book down and happily prepare for an afternoon in peaceful solitude.
The thing I feel these books have in common is that they were written by extroverts. What makes Pan's work so convincing is that the root of her perceived issues stems from her being an introvert. After acknowledging that maybe she could use a bit more of a social life, Pan vows to spend the following year doing things well outside of her comfort zone, including going to networking events where she doesn't know anyone gasp , meeting women from Bumble BFF for coffee or drinks in the hope of feeling the elusive friend-spark yikes , taking an improv comedy class please, no , traveling alone and letting a complete stranger pick the destination you can't even use a guidebook for help making plans when you get there: double yikes , doing stand-up comedy I'd rather die , and hosting a dinner party I mean, at least these people already like her.
I so totally appreciated the lengths Pan went to for this book. And guess what: sometimes it really sucks. She had some really awful, panic-inducing, I'd-rather-be-anywhere-but-here moments along the way, but she stuck with it and came out with a group of unexpected new friends to invite to a dinner party. Pan is the introvert that acknowledges that sometimes introversion is a bit of a problem, makes the resolution to try her hand at extroversion, and faces her fears for an entire year to learn that some of the stuff she was any many introverts are, I'm sure afraid of really wasn't that bad.
She morphs from a "shintrovert" shy introvert into a budding "grintrovert" gregarious introvert in hilarious, heartwarming fashion. Her story is one that will stick with me when I'm dreading a networking event or considering cancelling plans, and I'll recommend her advice to many of my introvert friends. This book!
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It was like reading a mirror. I took a job in China that forced me to spend 18 hours a week teaching a class of strangers and the other 22 hours planning re Published May 28th I received an ARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. I took a job in China that forced me to spend 18 hours a week teaching a class of strangers and the other 22 hours planning read stressing about those classes.
It was awful and amazing. I did both better and worse than I ever imagined I could and it was mostly better. I felt so relieved reading Quiet. It felt like it was okay to be more for once and it was okay to not want to talk to complete strangers and make friends in public places for no reason other than liking people.
And just like Pan I used Quiet as an excuse to Tell me how you feel about this review in the comments. Let me know how you feel about being an introvert or an extrovert. What was the book you read that made you feel like it was okay to be you? Jessica Pan is an introvert and it is extremely difficult for her to make friends.
She bails on engagements, is terrible at small talk, and the only friend she really has his her husband Sam. She decides to change all of this by going out into the world and researching the best ways to connect to people and gives herself a year to really make a change. This books takes her from Improv to learning how to have a meaningful conversation with another person. You can be just a human wanting to better your connections with others. Shelves: netgalley , reviewed. Upfront, I received a free copy of this book from Net Galley in exchange for possibly reviewing it.
I am an Introvert with a Myers-Briggs I. This book was on my TBR as soon as I saw the title. I'm not a shintrovert like the author. I have to pretend to be an extrovert for work, and it is exhausting! What's a shintrovert? Read the book. Still, I could relate to her story on so many levels. Oddly enough, I have also lived in Beijing and London. I know exactly the challenges she's Upfront, I received a free copy of this book from Net Galley in exchange for possibly reviewing it.
I know exactly the challenges she's talking about. She is a lot kinder in describing them than I am. I really enjoyed her approach to the personal challenge she set. Besides being funny and entertaining, the book is surprisingly educational. I learned quite a bit, and I felt she really incorporated expert advice so well. If you are an introvert, read this book. You'll find a kindred spirit. If you are an extrovert but always wondered why introverts do the things they do, read this book.
If you don't know what you are, take a Myers-Briggs test first, then read the book. And Jessica, now that I know many of your deepest, darkest secrets, would it be weird if I still wanted to be friends? How far would you go in order to make friends in a foreign country, in a busy city? Jessica Pan goes the whole nine yards, which is admirable. She challenges herself to overcome her natural shyness, to leave her comfort zone and live as an extrovert for a year. And she does it by the book: she sets her target, does research sometimes on Google!
Talking to strangers on the street or on the bus, going on a trip in a surprise city without a map or tourist guides or eating magic mushrooms might not yield the desired result, but networking, friend-dating and taking improv classes might.
By the end of the year, Jessica gathers enough friends to host a Thanksgiving dinner the ultimate challenge! The author's light tone, the self-deprecating humour reveals not only Jessica's vulnerabilities but also shows she's aware of her shortcomings and needs people in her life that might compensate for them. We all do, so grab a pen and paper and start taking notes! As a fellow introvert, I can definitely relate to a lot of Jessica Pan's experiences and struggles. Pan had a goal of breaking out of her shell and enlisted the help and advice of some experts along the way.
Her story is shared with lots of insight and plenty of humor. This book was a lot of fun to read and I learned a few things too.
While I won't be signing up for stand-up classes anytime soon, I definitely could benefit from breaking out of my own shell a bit more often. Thanks, Jessica, for As a fellow introvert, I can definitely relate to a lot of Jessica Pan's experiences and struggles. Thanks, Jessica, for sharing your experiences!
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Well, this book made me a bit anxious reading it. As an introvert myself I really can't imagine myself for a year acting the way this woman did. Being social at parties,being involved in plays,public speaking etc. It makes me cringe to even imagine such a thing. Now there were admittedly some funny scenes with the repercussions of her actions as I shook my head saying, not me.
No way could I do this! Pub Date 28 May I was given a complimentary copy of this book. Thank you. All opinions expresse Well, this book made me a bit anxious reading it. All opinions expressed are my own. This is a tricky one to review, in that Jessica Pan's writing is quite good in an informal, chatty, magazine style and is clearly well researched - but I'm not really sure about the concept. The synopsis is: "An introvert spends a year trying to live like an extrovert with hilarious results and advice for readers along the way And where's the parallel title where an extrovert spends a year saying no and learning the pleasures of solitude?
Nonetheless, as an introvert myself, I was intrigued to learn more about her experiment. Although I value plenty of 'me-time' it's still important to me to have social connection preferably on a one-to-one basis but it's hard to make new friends as an introverted adult. I think this platonic Tinder-esque platform is actually a great way for introverts to make friends as you get to read the person's bio, see if you have something in common, and do some online chatting before meeting in person. Whilst Pan struggled with it, I actually like solo travel although I'd find it a nightmare doing it without a guide book and extensive pre-planning!
However, the idea of going to big networking events, and doing improv and stand up is nightmarish to me, and indeed whilst Pan gains some self-understanding through these, the negative effect on her mental health makes me question whether it was really worth it. Overall, the book has some helpful advice if you're a shy extrovert they do exist or an ambivert, but I don't think it's really that beneficial to true introverts.
As an introvert I thought that this would be right up my alley. And to some degree it was. I could relate to certain parts of it but there was still alot that made me realise just how much of an introvert I am as I felt that the people in these short stories were more outgoing than I am, so for that reason there was alot that didn't interest me or that I could relate to. Still it had parts that made me smile and it was quite well written. I really really like the name for this book.
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This collection of short stories I can see being a hit for alot of people. It's just unfortunately isn't for me so much but it's still a good read. I really enjoyed this book - Jessica Pan takes us into her world as a "shintrovert" shy introvert and what she experienced during a year of trying to live more like an extrovert. Her writing style is warm, witty and personable, and it's hard to believe that she really is introverted and shy. I am definitely more of an extrovert, and found hearing her side of the story very illuminating, in terms o Thank you to Andrews McMeel Publishing and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
I am definitely more of an extrovert, and found hearing her side of the story very illuminating, in terms of being a better friend to introverts. From the reviews I saw before I read the book, I understand some people thought it would be more scientific and go into mental health aspects like anxiety, panic attacks etc. The author does consult various experts on how to overcome challenges talking to strangers, networking etc.
There is also a short bibliography included at the back, although this is not footnoted in the text of the book. Overall - well-written and highly recommended! Writer Jessica Pan intends to find out. With the help of various extrovert mentors, Jessica sets up a series of personal challenges talk to strangers, perform stand-up comedy, host a n introvert spends a year trying to live like an extrovert with hilarious results and advice for readers along the way. With the help of various extrovert mentors, Jessica sets up a series of personal challenges talk to strangers, perform stand-up comedy, host a dinner party, travel alone, make friends on the road, and much, much worse to explore whether living like an extrovert can teach her lessons that might improve the quality of her life.
As I am also an extreme introvert, It made me smile.
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But it also gave me thought to get out and make an effort. I must say, I do have an excuse for everything. In this day you can order weekly groceries online, food delivered, even restaurants and pharmacies. Amazon is a friend. Love this book. I will be buying the paperback. Thanks to NetGalley for the advance copy for review.
Apr 19, Amanda Taddey rated it really liked it. I really liked this book! Jessica spends a year of her life doing things that scare her in hopes of breaking through her shyness. I was so impressed by the steps she took to make new friends and put herself out there. She includes tips and lessons learned by her mentors along the way and I love that she invited all her new friends and acquaintances to a dinner party at the end of her year-long jo I really liked this book! She includes tips and lessons learned by her mentors along the way and I love that she invited all her new friends and acquaintances to a dinner party at the end of her year-long journey.
This book was lovely, funny, cringe-worthy as a fellow shintrovert, and inspirational. I learned some things along the way and throughly enjoyed this book. Apr 22, Megan Byrd rated it it was amazing Shelves: books-read. A self-proclaimed "shintrovert" shy introvert , Jessica is living in London with her husband and feeling lonely now that all of her good friends moved away.